When the world is flying by...

 It's been more than a year since the pandemic has grounded us. Things moved so slowly initially. Unable to travel/go out, stuck at home. There are days where I don't know which day it was. Everything felt like a drag. 

Things are better now. Adapting to a new norm. Time seems to quicken up its pace once more.

*Blink* one hour has gone *blink* one day has gone *blink* one week has gone *blink* one month has gone.

Life is passing by so so quickly. Why?

Is it how the internet connects us to information so fast that our brain is flooded without a chance for a breather? Is time really moving faster? Is it because we fill our minds with so many things at the same time? Did we truly achieve more by moving so fast?

I went back to school. Studying a topic that I keep finding myself going back to, Psychology. Now I find myself spending every available moment studying. It's only been 1.5months and I am trying really hard to balance family, love, self, work, school, and friends. Gone are the weekends where I can set aside hours to feed my soul. 

Glad that I'm managing the stress quite well. Being conscious the moment I'm stressing over if my best is not gonna make it,  or when I try to compare myself with others, FOMO...etc etc. Nip it at the bud before it can manifest. I want to love everything. Not let stress or pressure kills it. Big picture.

Not gonna give meaning to past struggles, nor gonna sugarcoat the future for motivation. 

The art of non-striving. How does one aim for excellence without striving? 

One thing at a time. Just show up and do your best.

Be it good, be it bad, come what may.

Acceptance of reality, of self, of now,

is bigger than anything in this world.

Memories

 What are memories?

Things we remember in general. Short term, long term. Information of things, places, names, faces, skills, feelings, etc.

How accurate is it?

Not very. tons of variables influence it.

If you have a tumor or damage to the brain, you may forget the past or be unable to make any new ones.

Your mood, experiences, and environment also affect your memories of an event due to individual perceptions. 

I have personally had zero recollection of certain events in my life until someone told me about it or I saw a photograph and decided to make a connection with it. And suddenly, memories I never had are fresh like they just happened yesterday. Did I choose what to believe and what to remember? I believe so (haha this answer is exactly proof). 

In a sense, our brain is so powerful (and malleable) that you can actually put anything you want into it. Of course, there is also priming (ads and commercials), but such tactics don't work unless you already have an emotional connection with it. Just like seeing coke flashing across my subconscious a thousand times is not gonna make me buy coke if I hate it. I would probably unconsciously feel irritated instead). But, with that said, we do associate things unconsciously too. E.g. if you keep seeing happy people drinking coke, you may start to associate coke with happiness. 

Back to memory, it's not real. It just isn't. It is just a bunch of snapshots of your own creativity and perspective. If you change your perception, your feelings towards certain memories will shift and what you choose to remember will eventually change too. 

What then is unchangeable and real? 

This very moment, unadulterated with any perception, Now.

What is real? A look into perception

 “In this treacherous world
Nothing is the truth nor a lie.
Everything depends on the color
Of the crystal through which one sees it”

                - Pedro Calderón de la Barca 

"Form is emptiness, emptiness is form"
                - Heart Sutra

"I think, therefore I am"
                - René Descartes 

Above are wisdom-loaded quotes from 15th-century Spanish playwright, Buddhism, and French Philosopher on perception respectively.

And it's not a perception of theirs. With science advancement, this can actually be proven. That what was captured through our senses is interpreted by our brain to form percepts. Percepts vary from one person to another as it is molded by our environment, genetics, culture, both nature, and nurture.

Why do we give subjective meaning to things? We can't we just accept things as sensory inputs with no filters?

Example of perception: 

- When we see a car becoming bigger and bigger, we don't perceive it as the car is enlarging but it is getting closer and closer to us. 

- Why two dots and a curved line when place in a certain position is a smiley face and not just some random scribble.

- How we just know the hand sticking out a window is attached to a body.

- How in a landscape painting, you know that the darker tone shape is supposed to be further away than the lighter tone shape, and both probably depict a mountain. 

Key in optical illusion in Google search and get ready to be bamboozled.

Well, perception does help us survive. 

- How our taste buds and nose detecting food that turns bad

- depth perception so you don't jump off a cliff

- pain on the body that signals that something is wrong, and 

- determining whether that beeping sound you hear is a message or the fire alarm.

Thus perceptions are useful interpretations made by our brains, trying to make sense of all the signals that are incoming, and translate them into something that is logical, explainable, and plausible.

However, translations are just translations. How chemicals in our brains move, how neurons are wired and fired, how our past experiences mean to us all contribute to how we translate, how we perceive. But by no means it's reality. It's just your version of reality. Your brain tells you what you saw, heard, smelled, felt, and tasted. 

So what is real? 

If everything is just perception, then is nothing real?

Exactly. Nothing is real.

Everything has no meaning until we gave it meaning.

While we are unable to overcome perceptions embedded so deeply into our biology, we can still choose to react rather than respond.

Let those perceptions that help us in our daily life, continue to help us.

As for those depreciating, soul-sucking, insufferable and undeserving ones:

- try viewing them without any filter or

- view them with skepticism, from afar, be critical

After all, perceptions are just attached meanings. 

Be aware, let it go. 

Nothing is real.

Hell Yeah!

I first heard of this term from the creator of Be More with Less Courtney Carver. 

If your soul is not saying "Hell Yeah!" about something, then say no. 

Using this to draw boundaries was very helpful. It makes me aware of the times that I'm trying to be nice to get people to like me. (Even if they did in the end, it is a fake me. What's the point).

I truly started practicing it when I did the Artist's Way.

Part of the non-negotiable activity in this 12-weeks journey includes a weekly date with yourself.

This date has to be by your ownself, doing something you want to do but have been saying 'no' due to people's judgment, own judgment, self-talk, etc.

As the over-achiever that I am, I always wanna do things 'right'.

Since I'm gonna date myself, I may as well do a "Hell Yeah!" activity and bring the point home.

So what exactly is Hell Yeah!? Well, I define it as something (can be a movie / an activity) that makes my heart soar and my soul feel free. Free of judgement and restriction. It can't have any purpose too. Once there is a purpose / meaning to it, it gets all bogged down by the Ego trying to 'perfect' it. 

Or trying to kill two stones with one bird, like "since you want to cycle, why don't you cycle to work?" Then the focus on getting there on time kills the journey. Thus the irony is for the purpose to NOT have any purpose. 

Anyway.

One would think that it is easy to know what one wants. Pfft.

After years of conditioning to be 'sociable', 'normal', 'efficient' and 'not stupid', it's hard for me.

First few dates was, well, easy. Just clearing my bucket list.

Then old patterns seep in... things started to be 'pointless' and 'stupid'..

"Are you crazy? Wearing a furry suit and walk around in this weather?"

"Dancing in the public?? Pftt"

"Cycling on the empty street at 4am? Don't you need to sleep?"

"Singing in the rain?? You think you in a broadway show??"

Takes a lot of introspection to be aware that the only person negging me and holding me back is my brain.

Maybe it is trying to protect me, maybe it is trying to justify it's existence as usual, but it restrict the soul nonetheless.

When the soul gets bound up, like a bird in a cage, no amount of sleep and rest and me time is gonna fix it. External stimuli are temporary fixes and Im way pass that.

And it's not like I didnt try to take a short cut. I did. Trying to get a friend along / trying to use the activity as a way to get attention / to get approval. Nope, doesnt work.

End of the day, it is myself I need to get along with, my soul that needs my attention and my approval I need.

Thus, while it is all fun and hell yeah, I do need to seriously carve out time to listen and plan it it ABOVE everything else. 

When Im feeling hell yeah inside, the outside doesnt matter anymore. Although, it is always observed that outer hell yeah will 100% be a side effect of an inner hell yeah. Things fall in place in synchronicity. 

Aint that the sweetest? 

Hell Yeah!

Acceptance

 What connotation do you have toward this word acceptance?

Does it invoke discomfort, passiveness, resignation?

Or does it make you feel at peace, having faith, embracing reality?

Meaning. Everything in life, in general, doesn't have any meaning. 

It's only human beings with their consciousness, give meanings to things, words, stuff, everything.

Without this amazing human brain of ours, there is absolutely no meaning to everything.

No meaning here is not with a negative undertone but just simply nothing. No-thing. Null. Neutral.

Thus whatever meaning you give to the word acceptance is just a personal perception.

Of course, one can logically argue that there is a fixed definition of the word in the dictionary.

But what it means to people, that is an independent experience.

I used to see acceptance as toughening up:

- no point crying over spill milk

- what doesn't kill me makes me stronger

I suppressed a ton of emotions down, buried them deep while trying to toughen up. All these cause a lot of conflict between my heart (soul) and my brain (mind). I struggled forward even when my wounds are not fully healed. When it reaches the tipping point, when I can't find a carpet big enough to hide the elephant in the room, I broke down and spiral into darkness.

Then came resignation. A feeling of total uselessness. Unable to control my life in the slightest. Existentialism crisis. What am I here for? What is the meaning of everything? What is the point? The elephant under the carpet literally came undone and ran amok within me breaking me up from within.

When you hit pit bottom, there is only one direction left. Up. I'm glad that my fall never did cause me any perpetual harm to my mental, emotional and physical health. The desire to be better came back after the elephant calm down. (Being an angry, depressed, crazy elephant all the time is tiring.) Healing can start when havoc was done wreaking.

I practice acceptance again. This time, accepting the elephant for what it is and embracing every part of it. The good the bad and the ugly. I accepted all with neither obligation nor judgement. There is no motive too for personal gain, no rush no pretense. The ironic part is, when the elephant is acknowledged, it usually walks away and disappeared. The struggle between the mind and soul ceased. Peace comes naturally.

Many times I aim to find peace to no avail. The mistake was I see peace as an end goal when it actually isn't a thing to be grasp at all the in first place. Peace is what comes naturally by having no desire. When you stop seeking, you realise that it is within you all along. All you need is acceptance.

The Abramović Method - Meaning of Life through seemingly Mundane Tasks

 How do we silence our minds and enter the peace that is within?

Today I chanced upon an artist, Marina  Abramović. 

She is a Serbian conceptual and performance artist using art to explore the relationship between the performer and audience, the limits of the body, and the possibilities of the mind.

Recently she collab with Wetransfer on The Abramović Method.

Before I know it, I went into a meditative state just watching her doing her art.

Drinking water, walking slowly, counting rice, staring into the windows of our soul.

Meaningless, mindless things. So what is the purpose?

To be in the present moment.

She was on point when she was explaining the counting rice exercise.

You mix black lentils into white rice. Make a decision of how much rice you will count and whether you will count just the white/black / both.

For the first 5mins, you may be excited and enthusiastic. It's something new that you haven't done before. It's fun. After 15-20mins you start to feel pointless. Frustrated about the drudgery of it and start to feel angry and frustrated. This is the most important moment. You must get past that point and make the decision to stick to your promise to complete the whole exercise. If you give up in frustration now, you will have the same attitude when you face life. Once past, you shall find the tranquility where time stops and moment in the now just unfolds by itself. The destination no longer matters but the here and now.

In a way, counting rice, like many other mundane tasks we do daily, is life itself. What it means to live a full life? What does it mean to have a life? It can't be found through definition nor destination. You have to experience it and its true meaning shall unfold upon you.

 

Can we be 100% self-reliant?

Can we be 100% self-reliant when we have this innate need for validation, acknowledgment and recognition?

Where does this need comes from in the first place?

If we were born perfect, why do we feel that we are not enough and constantly have to strive for more?

I do believe that every one is born perfect. There is no good nor bad, no right or wrong, no sense of meaning and thus we don't suffer. Everything unfold moment by moment, naturally. Hunger, discomfort, we cry, brain produce endorphins, we self-soothes. 

But as we grow, we receive tons of input: "This is wrong" "That is right". "Stop it." "No." "You are such a good boy.". People older than us are constantly approving or disapproving what we 'naturally' want to do. We can always ignore them and stick to our guns but biology made us in such a way that our brain develop way faster than our body. Thus, we are unable to convert our thoughts into action and become dependent. (e.g. can't reach the door handle, not enough strength to open the jar, can't walk / run steadily, cant express out our thoughts clearly) 

So we need people. Mainly to feed us and care for us. We want them to understand us. Such dependency inevitably lead us wanting people to like us so that they will give us what we want. "I'll be a good girl and THEN I can get that candy that I want". We are being 'controlled' in that sense due to our own lack of physical ability, to love, care and look after ourselves. It no surprise when we reach adolescent (a period where we began to master our spatial ability and critical thinking), we want independence so badly. We stop trying to 'please' as proof our sense of identity, our independence. Yet the truth of the matter is, we are already too used to pleasing people to get them to accept us. It is what we have been doing for the past 10 over years. We have become socially interdependent (my identity is tie yours and others around me and vice versa). It is not possible to just undo what has been programed in us so easily. So what do we do next?

We seek peers and society approval. This is the part of your life where you are trying out independence and wanting to do things by yourself and be successful by your own means. What does success means for an adolescent? Depending on what the environment had taught thus far, it can be academic or skills or something else like fame. That feeling of inadequacy still follow us around, making our decision and choices,  pushing us towards excellence to reach what we deem as success. Striving for perfection.

All this is well, normal. But back to the question: "Can we be 100% self-reliant?" We are so imbedded into the society and environment, seeking acknowledgement and achievements, using social definition and judgement to mark our own progress or even define us as successful or a failure. It seems almost impossible to be self-reliant unless we cut off the whole world (and all its social definition) and go be a hermit. But who would want to live that way. Without definition, life is meaningless. Also, do we really want accept all the consequences we face in our life as OUR OWN choice and decision and nothing to do with the 'situation'? That is a huge call. 

Well, here's a thought. What if we disregard all definitions of success and failures and create our own? What if we can see that we are all made perfect in the first place and throw away all judgements and perceptions that was programed onto us? What if we can unconditionally love, validate, acknowledge and accept ourselves without another soul's approval? What if we can support each other's definition instead of measuring and comparing each other's like there is only one answer? 

Then we will be able to see other as an equal, as a friend and most important of all : Be 100% self-reliant.

The Goal behind Emotion

 What if behind every emotion there is a goal?

I believe that emotions are an illusion. It's not real in the sense that it can come and go within a second.

So what is the purpose of emotion? Why do we create it in the firsts place? 

In a nutshell, the goal of all emotion (yes all) is to feel superior (or less inferior) in someway to actualize I am. To truly feel "I'm right, you're wrong." I'm better than you".

Example: I see someone doing something I deemed wrong and thus I judge them to be some one I dislike. I chose to dislike. The person perhaps didn't intentionally nor personally out to get me / piss me off  in the first place. Yet, with my new dislike, I will continue to seek out things that validate my point, finding evidence, coming up with story (when there is no evidence) to paint that person in a certain way that fitted  my diagnosis. (some times it even actualized and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy)

Even when they did nothing, it's wrong. The more I dislike, the more I seek of the person weakness. The more weakness I found, the more I justify my dislike, stance and position. It's a self-feeding cycle  to justify myself that I was right.  The more justification I get, the more I feel like I'm better and superior, that I'm right. So one can say the true goal of this dislike is to make my own self feel better. 

Another way to put it: I don't like and accept myself. To do so, I must be better, more right, climb up over others, improve. 

(Could be a coincidence that the word Improve is spelled like I'm + prove. Like the whole point of improve is to prove the existence of I am, the ego)

And what happens if  I can't improve? How else can I bring myself up quickly? Bring other people down. Show and point out to them that "Nah, you are wrong. I'm right". That's one cheap way of gaining self-confidence and self-recognition. 

But it's an illusion right from the start. Create by the ego to manifest it own self. And to keep it inflate, one have to consistently seek out stuff that validate it's viewpoint, its judgement, to prove "I'm right". (to prove I am).

Same goes for anger. Did someone did something that made you angry? Or could the truth be that you felt inferior, were already unhappy and thus you are seeking for things to be angry about and jump up into a rage the  first moment you find a chance to do so. To assert, to raise your voice, to go into "I'm Right, You are Wrong!" mode to feel superior? People can do the shittiest things. We can choose to respond and not react. We can choose to have a conversation instead of jumping straight into anger.

The feeling of victimized and limited is tricky. What is the goal behind: Nah, I cant because …You don't understand.. (and the cycle repeats and one stays a victim) What could be the goal behind this? Here is where it gets dark. Like above example of people seeking other's weakness constantly to reinforce the emotion of dislike, feelings of victimized can be seek out too, thus the term self-sabotaging. "I can suffer and take more shit that normal people, I'm superior" " I am as good as others but I have this thing that I can't do it" " I let other win and I lose because I'm nicer than other people". All these justification to reinforce a toxic version of "I'm right, I'm better than you".

 As within, So without. How you see reflects how you feel deep inside. You don't see a satisfied person dissing about others shit or self sabotaging or trying to prove to the world that they are happy. They have the courage to respect and love themselves unconditionally (even when the whole world felt that you fail and disappointed them). There is no need to struggle and improve: no I am and thus nothing to prove.

When you can do that too, you will be truly satisfied and shall have no use for illusionary emotion.

Just be, just accept and just love.

The Right Path

How do I know that I am on the right path?

My whole life so far is a series of subscription.

Subscribing to whatever that is in front of me. One can call it swaying with the wind.

From parents to friends to books.

Every time I read / learn something new I dive right in.

Meditation wise I went for silent retreat, attended MBSR courses and do Yoga.

Lived by so many books : 7 Habits, Loving What Is, Soulful Simplicity, Kon Mari, Curated Closet, Project 333.

I truly enjoyed Psychology + Philosophy mixture. This is clearly shown in my likings for books and channels like School of Life, The Art of Thinking Clearly, Thinking Fast and Slow. Psychology is everywhere. After all, at the end of Psychology is the working of the human brain.

What about Philosophy? Its the art of living. Living a good and happy life. 

Many books and wisdom is a merge of both. It is after knowing how one things work, that heightens one's awareness via understanding, that one can use the tool (apply ourselves) better.

While I do believe in Universe (which can neither be classify under psychology or philosophy. More like a religion as its faith base) I still find it overlapping in both school of thoughts.

Like in 7 Habits. there is mention of building horizontal relationship, of focusing on one's own circle of influence. Same in Adlerian Psychology, focusing on one's task. Your tasks is to contribute, accept yourself and others as they are (in being) and leave the rest to them. 

Basically, leave it to the Universe. Haha

Passive? Nope. Liberating.

Easy? Nope. Ego is so damn hard to remove.

In Aldlerian Psychology, one have to accept one self fully, in the being.

Next to separate tasks and focus on one's own. 

Third, to treat all relationship (with everything in this Universe, even inanimate objects) as equal.

Will all these, you shall find love, joy and peace. 

The steps are clear, the path requires courage though. The courage to challenge and kill off your ego.

So back to the topic, How do I know I'm on the Right Path?

Well, I know when I feel congruent. My body, mind and soul have no conflict and I feel a inner sense of security. Stillness and clarity.

Do I have that now? In glimpses, yes. Requires a lot of introspection and ruminating over stuff. All these need silence. Silence of the mind. I have been practicing "Leave it all to the Universe, Be Present" recently. This helps with the incessant flow of thoughts and allow me to Just Be. 

It's hard when one is in social setting though. We act differently, think differently, so fast so unnoticeable. We seek conformity, acceptance and validation. Which is why I said understanding allow us to identify it and be aware of it. With awareness, accepting and untangling will be easier. 

I guess I haven't fully internalize being One with the Universe. If I do, I would not have issue treating all things and being as equal (since they are me and I am them). This, according to Adlerian Psychology is the main cause of unhappiness. All problems are Interpersonal. Hope that by reading "The Courage to be Dislike" will make the path clearer ahead.

Everyone is searching for the answer to the big question : What is Happiness and how to get it?

The answer is that it is always there within your reach, in a distance of a breath. But it's not a destination that one can reach and stay there. Not a place in time and space, not to be grasps. There is a path though and one just have to flow with it.

Staying True to Nature

Today I let go all my fears, worries and hate. Together with my hopes and dreams, I hand them all over to the Universe. Some may call it God. I prefer to use the word Universe as it doesn't have any connotation to any religion. Lesser forms, lesser perception. I can call it anything since after all its just some alphabets arranged in a manner to form a word. A word is nothing until we, human, gave it meaning.

So is everything else in this world.

Why must we give things meaning? This is a drag, that is so boring, this is so frustrating, that is a total waste of time. Red is passion, blue is sorrow. Dawn is full of opportunities, night if full of terrors. Look at the trees. They don't bother about meaning. They just do what is in their nature: to take in air, water, sunlight and nutrient, and gave out oxygen, grow tall and grow leaves. Some may grow fast, some may grow slow. Some bear fruits some bear nothing but leaves. Some got struck by lightning some got chopped down. They don't get happy, angry, sad, tired. No matter what happen, they stay true to their nature: to take in air, water, sunlight and nutrient, and gave out oxygen, grow tall and grow leaves every day, every minute, every second, every breathe of the way. 

Same with animals. You see squirrel, birds, fish, cats etc. They all know what to do the moment they popped out of their mom's belly (or eggs). What purpose do they serve? No one knows. Do they need a purpose to do what they do? Nope. They just follow their instinct and stay true to their nature. Find food, survive, sleep, repeat. There is no 'meaning' behind every breath and action. There is no seeking of answers, no problems to be solved, no comfort nor hardship. They just live each day, each minute, each second, each breathe as it goes by. 

Humans. Oh we think we so smart, sentient being, walking on moon and all. Yet we are stuck in an endless cycle of satisfaction and expectation, of problems and solution, of seeking meaning and purpose. It's futile to impose meaning, definition, expectation and purpose when there is none. All these only leads to frustration. We will live a life free of suffering when we stop imposing and start living a live true to our nature. And what do living to our nature entails? Living each day, each minute, each second, each breathe as it come and go. 

An Intervention

Right. Let's start.

No more escaping. Smoking. Trying to find other things to do. Let's face it.

Yup. What's the smoking about? First 3 puff then 5puffs.

Am I really falling into my own pit again? Let's face the truth. Let's go.

The past week felt like drudgery. Everything is drudgery. Work, relationships, everything. Sleeping later and later, using caffeine to pull me through the day. Struggling hours on end whether to skip work or suffer through another day. I sensed that it’s spiraling down, down into a pit of familiar discomfort : of self-sabotaging and U-turns when things are going great.

Work. I have felt more and more disjointed towards my work the more I dive into my creative self. I started to spent more time on my personal projects, doing things that spark joy for my soul. All was great. 

Relationship. I understand that my happiness is my own responsibility and the objective of being with someone is not to expect them to change or even understand me on a spiritual level. It is truly about the support when you are weak, feeling safe under a sense of dependability and stability that they provide.

Above all, I have fully internalize As Within, So Without. My reality is nothing but a projection of my inner self. No one can make me happy if I ain't genuinely feeling joy and balance within.

Thus, here I am, trying to untangle what had happen. What changed from a centered, balance core to one that everything felt like a drag. Basically: Why am I unhappy?

To complain and start listing down how the world should be, how the person around should be is futile. It can go on and on and on without going anywhere. Let's try something more constructive. An honest conversation with my inner self.

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Dear Soul, why are you sad?

Have I not been showing up to the morning pages daily? Have I not bring you out for a date? Have I not try to listen and say No when you say no? Have I not ask what is it that makes you feel Hell Yeah?

Yes.

So what is the problem?

I haven't felt Hell Yeah! in a long time.

Is there something in particular that you would like to point out?

Yes. Last week blog post. We were already drafting something half way. But as you ran out of time, you swept it under the carpet and decided to go for something half-bake: copying and pasting a parable without a trace of my input left. What's the point of asking me talk when you have no intention of hearing me.

I'm sorry. Truly. I did tried to make it up to you by bringing you out to explore your creativity and work on your closet project.

Oh yeah? MY closet project. Right. You are the one who is sick of your closet. Nice job saying that it's for me. You do know it ain't a proper date if there is an objective right? The whole point of an artist date is doing things for the sake of doing things. Not because you want to achieve certain objective like revamping your closet.

So you felt silence and blocked since last Saturday, is that correct?

Yes. Maybe even before that. When was the last time we did a crazy fun date like rock climbing, hike at Mt. Faber, cycling in the dark and rain, swings and playground like no one cared. Oh, and the spa. It was supposed to be spiritual. You almost ruin the spa experience with your photo taking, posting on IG and trying to practice singing while in the onsen. Like seriously. Stop the multitasking. It's killing the joy with all the chase after meaning, task and achievement. 

I'm sorry. I have been trying you know. Bounce is out for a few more weeks and I don't know what else is Hell Yeah! enough for you.

Well, it really ain't that hard you know. Making bead jewelry, changing the mood board, cycling / swimming, stop being a block at work, sing your heart out, dance like no one care. Most importantly, stop blocking/ resisting/ take over all these things that I want to do. So what if I haven't learn any new songs? I can still belt my heart out with an oldie. So what if making the earring is gonna take up lots of time and that I wont wear it? So what if swimming is gonna be in a public area and you have to leave within an hour time due to Covid measures? So what if night cycling requires me to wake up at 4am? Just do it! it's not suppose to make any sense. Making sense out of everything, trying to fit into a box for everything is killing the joy out of everything. And the most most most tiring thing is, this is not the first time I'm telling you my list. I have said it more than once in the morning pages, you had it jotted down in your notebook but it doesn't get done! It just get swept under the carpet. Those times that you did pull it out was more of a half bake effort because you want to checked it off the list and make your own self feel good. It was rarely 100% for the sake of doing it by itself. To put in real effort is to truly set aside time for it and get out of the way. Just like the oil painting. Remember how you were doubting yourself every 30sec of the way? Get out of the way. There is no mistake, no right or wrong. If you truly want to attain a deep sense on bliss, joy and peace, please, stop trying to control everything and just get out of the way. You don't have to 'try' to do it. It's not for you but for me. Me being the source, the universe, the truth. Let me flow. 
This is for the both of us. When I flow, you flow. As Within, So Without. Trust the universe and you will be rewarded, with peace, bliss and joy.

Hell Yeah!