An inner dialogue

How do you know which religion is 'right'?

-All are same.... Some "ego" people create it to be different

When u help people, how will u know when it is really helping and not your ego. Perhaps they will be fine on their own, but just need time. Should we wait for people come seeking for help passively instead?

-Help given when one is not ready are water pour down the drain 

Even when they are obviously suffering?

- physical help you can provide. E.g. Basic needs such as food water and shelter to rest.

- Internal stuff you can practice sympathy and compassion

- Show them the possible avenue. Be the lighthouse.

- When they ready to open their eyes, they will know where to find you

So it's simply doing the right thing and be a role model?

- Yes

Does wanting to have children an egoistic thing?

- No. But it can become an attachment for the ego.

- It's an avenue for more and more attachments: Expectation, desire, love. you will want more things (Even though it may not be for yourself, but for other. Still it's a want, and thus an attachment)

Does saying 'I want the best for you, I want u to have a good life' an egoistic thing to say?

- No unless you are attached to the idea.

- It's ok to think the best for others, but to insist on it is attachment.

So I can want it and not want it at the same time?

- Yes.

Is this similar to doing without doing?

- Yes.

Ys this wu wei? 

- Yes. Action of non-action